Life on Planet Alz

Here is the Preface of my new book “Life on Planet Alz,” soon available on (search for “Jack Cohen” and/or “Life on Planet Alz” or at ).

This is a true story about coping with my beloved wife’s devastating diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease (AD), the terrible scourge of our age.  In general, people are living longer and diseases of the aged are becoming more prevalent.  The major neurological disease of the aged is in fact AD.

There have been many excellent books and descriptions of AD and its ravages upon the minds and lives of people, so why write another account?  Whenever a person is diagnosed with AD, their spouse automatically becomes their primary carer and unwittingly also becomes a prisoner of the disease.

Each case of AD is unique and two novel aspects of this account are: (i) the focus on the way that AD imprisons both the patient and their spouse in a constant process of deterioration, and (ii) the inclusion of an almost daily journal describing raw incidents that can be enlightening for the reader, and especially for the spouse of an AD sufferer.  This illustrates the vicissitudes and the almost total preoccupation that this disease encompasses.

The author hopes that his particular take on his predicament as a spouse of an AD patient can help those who are dealing with this situation or who may have to do so in the future.  It illustrates how the initial shock of the situation gives way to the realization that one has to learn to deal with it, and finally the acceptance that must come with time and experience.

How to describe memory?  It’s like a landscape where snow has fallen.  At first the surface is white and pristine.  But as time goes by people trudge across the field and leave footprints.  Then a cart goes by leaving parallel tracks, and then a car drives along the lane, leaving tire marks.  Then the scene gets busier, children on bikes on the way to school or to play leave their tire tracks and women going shopping and so on, until the surface is criss-crossed with memories of what had happened.  The analogy for Alzheimer’s disease is that all the tracks get intertwined and mixed up and confusing, and then it all starts to melt!


One thought on “Life on Planet Alz

  1. Can not wait for the book to be published, as it will be interesting to read about how you see the whole terrible situation that you and Naomi are experiencing together. Unfortunately, a slow dance to a bitter end.
    As someone who sees the relationship first hand, I want to tell you that I have learned so much from both of you. The love that you two have for each other shown through small gestures is monumental. I have learned that patience is a virtue that should never be taken for granted. That life is living in the moment with great abandonment, just singing a song or saying hello to a friend takes on a greater meaning then I could have ever imagined. Keep up the good work, Jack, you are an inspiration to us all. Shabbat Shalom


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